Is Their a Narcissistic Gene in the Preacher's Kid?

Is Their a Narcissistic Gene in the Preacher's Kid? What do you know about your pastor's kids? Are they anything like their narcissistic parents? What can I say about PK's better known as, "Preacher Kids"?  Often times, the term PK's or "Preacher Kids" is used in a descriptive way and as a stereotype. PK's are viewed as the "perfect ones" and/or the next future leaders . When in fact, most PK's are disassociated with the church. Yes-you read that correctly. Most "Preacher Kids"...

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Let's About Lesbianism In The Black Church

  Let's About Lesbianism In The Black Church When people hear about gays in the Black Church they automatically think it's the 'gay black man'. When in fact, it is the number of Black lesbians in the Black church that's alarming. Many won't believe the amount of lesbians that's in Black churches... from the Pastor's wife on down. Okay, so let's see...you have Pastor's wives that's a lesbian, the Usher, the Sunday School Teacher, etc. Lesbianism is just as bad as gay men in the Black...

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The Obnoxious Narcissist Andrew Caldwell

 Andrew Caldwell: The Obnoxious Narcissist What can I say about the infamous Andrew Caldwell? This type of person is what I call a 'Obnoxious Narcissist'. An Obnoxious Narcissist in my opinion is someone who loves to show off and draw attention to oneself, even if that means doing absolutely anything  to grab the spotlight. Now, doesn't that sounds like Mr. Caldwell. Andrew Caldwell is an embarrassment to all Black churches all over. For people who struggles with  homosexuality...

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A Story about An Apostolic Mother who is Emotionally Abusive and Narcissistic

A Story about An Apostolic Mother who is Emotionally Abusive and Narcissistic My mother is the oldest girl out of nine children who was raised in a single parent home by my grandmother. When my mother was six years old, her father died in a car accident. I could only imagine the devastation and impact that a child at the age of my mother at that time would have.  My grandfather's death trigger the narcissistic behavior that my mother suffers with today. My mother emotions were...

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Characteristics of the Narcissistic Black Man

 The Narcissistic Black Man The narcissistic Black man is a dragged out knocked out topic that will take days to explain. On that note, this will be the introduction of my point of view about the narcissistic black man. Get ready because it's going to be epic! Take moment and read the following descriptions about the narcissistic Black man. Stay tuned for part II. The Narcissistic Black Man is... Self-centered Manipulative Uses "gas-lighting" tactics Shows no remorse for mistakes...

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The Story about one Woman's Narcissist Sister

The Story about one Woman's Narcissist Sister What can I say about my narcissistic sister, Nicole. Well, she's definitely just like my narcissistic mother. Growing up with a sibling who too is considered narcissistic was difficult. The mind games, jealous rage, and her blackmail tactics has destroyed my trust in her. Was this surprising to me? Certainly not. Nicole is my narcissistic mother 's favorite child, in other words the "golden child". Nicole's abusive ways weren't physical,...

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Black Churches and the Lies Told to their members

Black Churches and the Lies Told to their members In our previous articles: The Cult Leader: The Black Preacher and  The Traditional Black Church: Where are We Today we talked about how the Black Church has gotten away from the church our ancestors came from and how today's Black churches are mainly preaching the prosperity sermon. We could not agree more with the video below. Do you agree or disagree?... Watch must see video HERE...

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The Egotistical Character, The First Lady

The Egotistical Character, The First Lady Pardon me, but who came up with the term 'First Lady'? Whoever is responsible for this, has created a mess! And the only ones that's using this term is the Black Church. Why though? FYI black church folks, there's only one true 'First Lady' and guess who that is? President Barack Obama's wife; First Lady, Mrs. Michelle Obama. So, why must the Black Church continue with this? In the Black Church, the term 'First Lady' signifies someone who is...

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Celebrities Who Grew Up in the Apostolic Church

Celebrities Who Grew Up in the Apostolic Church Did you know black celebrities like: Toni Braxton, Da Brat, D' Angelo, Angel Haze and many more grew up in the Apostolic Church? Interesting, right? Trust me, I said the same thing :-). I would like to know why they left or their opinion about the Apostolic Faith. Interesting topic-stay tuned... Read more at Preying Narcissist Blog!...

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Gospel Singer J. Moss is a Disappointing the Black Church

Gospel Singer J. Moss is a Disappointing the Black Church What's more disgusting and hypocritical is when a Gospel singer sings about God and his awesomeness and turns around and basically (because of his actions) displays to the world that the God that he sings about is a lie. Now hear me out-It is true that God is omnipotent, righteous, and a  forgiving God, but He IS NOT to be mocked at, played with, or taken lightly. Gospel Singer J. Moss, with his narcissistic egomaniac-egotistical...

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Where is the Traditional Black Church Today?

Where is the Traditional Black Church Today? In African American history, the "Black Church" has been the focal point for the Black community for centuries. "The Church" has established itself as the greatest source for African American religious enrichment. However, today the term " Black Church" part takes in racial disparities and  the glamorous religious lifestyles within the Black community. What happen to the Traditional Black Church where all who were of color gathered...

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The Black Preacher as a Cult Leader?, Report Says

The Cult Leader: The Black Preacher Today, the Black Preacher is the most egotistical and controversial character of the times. Below is a video I believe, supports what I just stated. Throughout the video pay close attention to the following:  1. At 19:05-SamVaknin describes the narcissistic cult leader. In this section he also explains that people are instruments of gratifications, criticism are unheard of, discipline is maintained, and most importantly- the cult leader must...

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Growing Up Apostolic and How it Affected Me

   Growing Up Apostolic  Growing up in a small town where everyone practically knew everyone wasn’t exciting at all. My life was consist of church when I was younger-every Wednesday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday morning and Sunday night was the norm. I grew up in the apostolic faith. At that time, as a child I knew being apostolic meant I and others similar to me couldn’t wear makeup, jewelry, pants, etc. I abhorred this very much. Going to school I could only wear long skirts and...

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Exploring Narcisssim in the Black Church

Narcissism in the Pulpit Is your control freak, 'pimp of a preacher' a narcissist? Take a look at the video below. In my opinion the video perfectly describes the sexual fantasies of a narcissistic preacher. Watch video HERE...

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Blacks Need to Know that Narcissism is a Universal Issue

Blacks Need to Know that Narcissism is a Universal Issue  For awkward reasons, the Black community is uneducated and ignorant about mental illnesses amongst our own people. Why is this? We are no different from the Caucasian community when dealing with mental issues such as: Anxiety Disorders, Bipolar, Childhood Disorders, Cognitive Disorders, and etc. Commonly, the disorder that is recognizably  found in the Black community is (NPD) Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This is...

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Bill Cosby Accuser Agrees with The PREYing Narcissist Blog

 Bill Cosby Accuser Agrees with The PREYing Narcissist Blog On December 5, 2014 CNN's Don Lemon and Alisyn Camerota interviewed the five accusers who alleged that Bill Cosby raped them years ago.One of the accusers in particular, Victoria Valentino describes Bill Cosby as a narcissistic. She also said there's no cure to narcissism and they lack personal insight. Victoria Valentino and The PREYing Narcissist blog agreed that Bill Cosby does suffers from narcissism personality disorder ...

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Rape Victim Under G.E. Patterson Ministries Reveals Narcissistic Minister

  Narcissistic Minister Raped Innocent Victim Under G.E. Patterson Ministries Like we said before, narcissism in the Black Church is real. And most of the times, the attacks of narcissism begins with the narcissistic homosexual preacher. In our previous article:Gays in the Narcissistic Black Church we asked a question-what's attracting homosexuals to the black church? Our answer to the question- the narcissistic black preacher. In the video below,  Lerone Baker (the victim)...

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What Are the Signs of a Victim of Narcissistic Supply?

Black People: Are you a Victim of Narcissistic Supply?  In my previous post I defined what narcissistic supply is. As a child my apostolic,abusive, and manipulating mother used her children for her narcissistic supply. We were her primary source. Yes, it is true! My apostolic, 'fire-baptized', 'holy-ghost filled' mother thrived on the accomplishments and disappointments of her children. Below describes what it means to become the source of narcisstic supply: Sources of Secondary...

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Homosexuals in the Narcissistic Black Church

Gays in the Narcissistic Black Church I think we all know someone who was raised in church and is gay. This is nothing new. The Black Church is full of gays and lesbians. As a matter of fact, every black church has at least one gay person and one gay pastor. But the real question is this: what's attracting those who are gay to the a narcissistic black church? I mean- don't get me wrong, they are in the right place for deliverance. And again the question is what's attracting those who...

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The Incapability of My Narcissistic Mother's Love

  My Story: The Incapability of My Narcissistic Mother's Love  After years of verbal abuse I now understood why my mother wasn't capable of loving me. Who and what she perceived to be was all in her imagination. Obviously, her image of herself and how others perceived her to be was imperative that she was willing to demise whoever got in her way through manipulation, lying, and abuse. A normal mothers’ love is a healthy unconditional love that requires a bonding beyond the...

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Confronting a Narcissistic Apostolic Mother

  Confronting a Narcissistic Apostolic Mother Two days after that tense conversation with my father, my mother decided to call. I remember it like it was yesterday. Everything I would say she would have something to say against it. As a young girl, the memories of my mother constantly telling me that I was fat played with me mentally. My mother and I knew that I was never fat as a child. When I asked her why did she say those things, the lies started. “You’re right Samantha; you...

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The Black Church: Is it All about the Titles and Positions

The Black Church: It's All in the Title In the “Black Church” it is imperative that you have a title and/or a position. Let the church say ‘Amen’ and let’s all go home- because I just revealed the truth. That’s right, if you don’t carry a title that resembles: Bishop, Elder, Minister, First Lady, Deacon, Arm Bearer, Mother of the Church, etc- you are not important. The black church is a cult that justifies materialism and titles. The Black Church use titles and positions to please people,...

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Narcissistic Characteristics of Black Celebrities and Pastors

  Black Celebrities and Pastors that have Narcissistic Characteristics  The world is full of narcissistic people. They can be your parents, boss, co-worker, or even a friend. Narcissist’s comes off as being charming charismatic individuals- but beware; they are treacherous people that prey on the weak. For instance, the news around the world is focus on Bill Cosby and the numerous of allegations from various women. Before I give my opinion on what type of narcissistic behavior Bill...

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